Virtual Sex-Cyber sex and you
Cyber sex virtual sex has
more than one definition. Most of us are have participated in Virtual
sex. But we did it on the phone. It was usually a sexual or erotic
conversation with our significant other. Some time on our way home from
work we would call and talk love talk with our partners as a form of
verbal foreplay. With the popularity of the computer we have resulted
to typing instead of phone communication. So this definition of cyber
sex is just phone sex gone typographical. We all can probably remember
when we met someone in one of the pre-Internet methods. And we spent a
lot of time getting to know someone over the phone first. And if the
other person was not close enough to be reached within a few moments or
a few hours, then we got to know them first over the phone. With the
invent and the popularity of the web cam, now video beats the heck out
of a regular phone conversation. Because now we have the added
excitement of viewing the person to whom you were speaking. I think
most of us have learned that with video chatting we have a lot more
information available to us about the other person to whom we are
chatting. A phone conversation just did not give us the valuable
information relative to the other person s physical appearance, because
now, we are looking at them and we can see for ourselves. This video
chatting also added the dimension of seeing and of being seen nude, or
in the various stages of being dressed or undressed. Now we
can generate more excitement, because we can show and see as much
of each
other as the participants desires. So when we remember or learn about
how we meet and get to know each other in the absence of the computer,
our procedures are basically the same. We did not and do not need the
computer to do the same things we essentially do with them. Of course
the video part of the conversation is currently not available without
the pc. The only vast difference is that we can now meet many people
very quickly, and our conversations are more none verbal. I think that
when we look at cyber activities through the lens of that concept we
realize that cyber participants are not a bunch of socially inept
dweebs that do not have real lives.
Essentially the cyber activities have simply replaced, to a degree, the
phone conversations. I remember in the seventies I spent a lot of time
on the phone talking to ladies introduced to me by my many friends, and
often this introduction was made over the phone. And I begin to know
them over the phone before I ever met them. Doesn t that sound like
what we are doing now through the dating sites? The dating sites have
replaced the need for the introduction by friends. But now we have the
friends introducing us to new people in addition to the people we can
meet on the dating sites. On the internet sites we have the options of
reading what the person is telling about themselves before we decide to
attempt an introduction or not. When a friend introduces us to someone,
we may feel that we have an obligation to meet that person, or at least
pretend to. But with the dating sites we do not feel that pressure. It
is a known fact that many lovers and loving partners talk dirty to each
other on the phone. Often one of the partners, during such a phone call
will masturbate. Sometime it is before the phone call if the call is
expected or anticipated. Some time the phone call is like foreplay and
excites the person so much that they will masturbate afterward. This,
of course, can be either the caller or the recipient of the call.
Sometime this action is unknown to the other partner, one party may
masturbate without the knowledge of the other. But often this call is
for the express purpose of sexual excitement. I remember before the
computer was availably to many of us. I remember I would have erotic
conversations with my lady so that when I arrived to her she would
already be highly sexually aroused and close to an orgasm before I even
touched her. Needless to say having her already excited and wet this
was highly sexually arousing to me as well. However, constantly craving sex may have underlying proplems, that may need to be addressed.
So Cyber Sex is really the same procedure or process used long ago even
before the invention or popularity of the computer, now we just
associate this sexual or pre-sexual activity with the computer.
Actually for many, the discovery of each other may have been done on a
dating site, but the actual communications graduated to the phone. The
importance of the computer is that with video chatting there is the
added stimulation of seeing or watching your partner or partners as
they masturbate or having them watch you masturbate. For mutual
increased sexual excitement or sexual gratification they can watch each
other. This may be done simultaneously or first one then the other,
depending on the preference of the participants.
Next time we will discuss how to virtual sex actually seduces your
cyber partner for you so real sex in person is assured.
Later as this discussion progress we will discuss cyber relationships
and infidelity and many other topics as well. Would you please go to
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